Break ups can be brutally painful especially when you thought the relationship would last forever. And sometimes it can take more than you ever thought to get over the person you once loved so dearly. Everyone you know is giving you tips on how to move on but no one really understands how you truly feel. But the question is what do you really want and can you deal with it? Watch out for these signs to know that you aren’t yet ready to move on.
You haven’t managed to get rid of any of the things they gave you including – gifts, cards and other mementos.
You want to, you’ve even boxed them all up but you can’t get yourself to throw it out. You feel like a part of you died with the relationship and these are the only memories you have from that time of your life.
2.) Everything you do, reminds you of them.
The silliest things you do makes you think of them. You’ve tried to fill up your schedule and remain extremely busy but for some reason everything keeps coming back!
3.) At any point of time, you’re just seconds away from completely breaking down.
Anything can trigger an emotional meltdown, a simple song, smelling their favourite fragrance or even simply crossing the place you’ll called your 'restaurant'! You want to make it stop but you really don’t know how to.
4.) You’re constantly whining about your ex to your friends.
You cannot stop talking about your ex for one second. They occupy every empty space in your mind and you’re always whining and cribbing about how they broke your heart.
5.) You still harbour the secret fantasy of getting back together.
Somewhere deep down you still feel that they will come crawling back to you and want you back in their life. You dream about the day when they will finally realise what they’ve lost.
6.) You've lost interest in dating and the concept of love just hurts you!
It is not that no one’s asked you but you really just don’t want to go. You aren’t the least bit interested in starting things up with anyone else and you actually feel like you’re cheating on your ex-partner even if you as much as flirt with someone else.
7.) You stalk him on social media – Like a lot!
A lot, lot, more than you should be. In fact, not just him, you also stalk his family and friends trying to get any update on their social life and what they’ve up to since they dumped you. Suddenly you've become like the obsessed maniac!
8.) You constantly listen to sappy love songs and even make them your Facebook status.
You want to send out a message to your ex via your status and make them realise how much they’ve hurt you but wake up and smell the coffee.
9.) You purposely make plans to go to places where you know you might run into them.
Seeing them makes you go weak in your knees, you’re still completely head over heels in love with them and would do anything to have them back in your life.
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